Thank you. That definitely lines up with my experience moderating subreddits and communities.

What’s the 90-9-1 rule?

It really sounds like a trash community in every way. You’re so right about that.

I get where you’re coming from, but if they are mentally ill like you say, then “looking better” won’t solve their problems anyway, so offering advice on how to be less ugly wouldn’t be helpful. That’s not hypocrisy, that’s just mental illness.

I think it’s more useful to ask yourself why you’re struggling with hate-watching these people. I know sometimes getting fired up about annoying people on the Internet feels good, but it isn’t usually. I’ve had to literally block apps on my phone for a while to get over it myself.

I never would have heard about this if not for the fediverse

Rest in piss!

How did he take that news?

This really perplexes me. Maybe I’m kind of in a bubble.