Arch on my personal machines, Debian on my servers.

Set an alias in shell for the complicated command, then just ssh and type the alias that is easier to remember.

Is there a compelling reason to use this over Amperfy?

It’s a GUI tool that lets you see both filesystem side by side and drag and drop items to transfer them

The only real problem I have with Wayland is not being able to find a reliable way to have unattended Remote Desktop in the same session as the local user. I can do most of my remote work over ssh but for some things I prefer a gui.