Hi, Desiree here and I do believe in destiny, but I’m ready now…

  • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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    6 months ago

    Sadly, noup. Thanks to the insane amount of people in alive, the chances to find a single specific individual is Infinitesimally small.

    Simple quick, back of the napkin math. 8 000 000 000 people alive. Assume just the opposite gender and equal distribution, 4 000 000 000. Spending just 5 minutes to get to know the other person, it would take 38 000 years to meet them all. Fine we can cut it in half due to not all of the 4B being of dating age. That still leaves us 19 000 years

    We can take it other way as well, assuming average lifespan of 80 years and leaving 8H hours for sleep, so roughly 25 000 000 minutes left for dating. In one lifetime you could meet up to 5 000 000 people, so 0,25% of the potential partners(assuming 2B in the datable age bracket).

    So no, don’t be passive or just hope that the right one finds you or that there is only one suitable one.

    Go out there, look for yourself as well for a good enough match. Then work together to improve the match.