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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • It’s not hard when you take the first step to admit that a habit is bad and you need to get rid of it. Even if your subconscious tells you not to.

    Yeah talked like a kid who haven’t give up anything yet. That shit takes time and I got places to be.

    tl;dw: You have a brain for a reason. Use it.

    To read? Or to achieve conclusions without reading? Please use it before answering. Fucking moron.


















  • Pretty much has been impossible to me to shake that feeling of “oh boy, here we go again” when I need to speak to someone, or someone needs to speak to me (like holding my breath but not really). Sometimes I had prepared answers beforehand, but those are useless, you forget them as soon as you need them.

    At the end of the day it’s just practice. I got used to always ask direct questions to cut conversations as short as possible. I think is more tiring being shy than to throw a few words (because sadly it takes more time if you lock yourself).

    I also disconnected the phone. There is no use for that shit in these times.

    It also helped that most of my friends know that I have issues dealing with people, so when they invite me to parties, they know its a possibility that I would not present myself, or if I do, I stay at most 1h. No one would actually care, since the party is for them too.


  • Bro, did you read your articles? All of them you could summarize in the same description I gave you (except for the shyness). Besides, these are no papers, these are articles created by randos on the internet, or worst, companies (you know, with commercial agendas). There is no review process for these. Wikipedia is more reliable.

    Introversion is a preference. Not a condition.